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Happy Holidays

November 14, 2010 by Lisa Freeman
Posted in•Social Thinking•A Parents View

The holiday season is upon us.  It’s time to eat, drink and be merry!

The only problem with that idea is that the holidays are also stressful. There are lots of plans, lots of people and lots of sensory overload. With some planning you can help your child navigate the holiday maze of socializing.

Help your child prepare for each event. Tell them where you’re going and who will be there. Discuss the hidden rules – what behaviors are expected as well as those that are unexpected. Let them choose what they want to bring along. Discuss whether or not they have to share what they bring and what the ‘sharing rules’ are. Talk about who they should say hello to when you arrive. Who will they be able to hang out with? What can they do with that person? What should they do if they are having difficulty – how can they let you know they need help? Planning ahead can help to smooth the way for everyone.

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  • 1.Thank you so much for giving these suggestions. I am so worried about the next week because it will be a total change in routine for my daughter. I am scared she is going to get overwhelmed and end up having a meltdown. I will definitely try to help her through the process and hopefully it will come out being a positive experience.

    Rhinoplasty | December 2010

  • 2.There are a few more suggestions in our December newsletter. You can access by clicking on the archive link on the home page. Keep a close eye on your daughter at your events. Try to catch her before the meltdown begins so you can redirect her. Good Luck and have a peaceful holiday season.

    Lisa Freeman | December 2010

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